5 ways to have yourself a Merry Little Sexmas!

Have you been naughty or nice this year? Are you thinking how to incorporate some sex in to the holidays? Well, a lot of people do, at least according to Pornhub, the searches for Mr. Claus and Mrs. Claus increase both during the season significantly.

You don’t have to go all the way roleplaying santa and the elves but with these tips you can spice up your Holidays and make it a Sexmas to remember! Since traditions are good for us, why not have yourself some new traditions that are all about pleasure


1. Think about what you would like to try/do/experiment

Perhaps you have an idea of something you would like to try but you are too shy to present the idea while drinking your morning coffee? Not to worry, make that as your "first" gift. It can be a handwritten card or a sexy email where you describe what you would like to do or be done to. Let me assure you, there's no one who wouldn't love to read and be willing to execute that! Plus you will get the mood set right for the evening.


2. Spread it out

We think not all gifts are meant to be given all at once. And if you think about it, it’s actually a rather nice idea to give your partner several gifts during the holiday times. Who says you could not give a “pre-Christmas” gift? or for that matter a “day-after-Christmas” gift on the next morning? As the 12 days of Christmas go on long after new years, you have plenty opportunities to spoil your loved one, and treat yourself too at the same time.


3. Self love

Don't forget to treat yourself too. Getting yourself a little something something to enjoy in a bath or shower is a must... you, if anyone certainly deserve it! And maybe you bring in your partner the next time to handle the toy. 


4. Wrap some presents

As the holiday season gives us a bit of time to relax, it also gives us a chance to break our normal routines and embrace traditions of decorating, baking gingerbread cookies and wrapping gifts.  You could slip into something comfortable and sexy and play a little of game of Shibari, the art of bondage. While you are wrapping presents you can learn how to do other knots as well. YouTube has plenty of tutorials but here's a basic one to get you going 



5. Set up a game night 

Why not create a game of gifts of what you would like to give to your partner? An erotic massage, sense play with eyes tied, or perhaps a session you using his/hers favourite toys on them as they wish. You can both write down your "wishes" on a pieces of paper and them randomly pick them out from santa's hat. 


How ever you prefer spending your time and going about your traditions this holiday season, we hope you have your and your partners sexual satisfaction also in mind and include some intimate not-so-silent nights in your own traditions as well!



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